Peers

people around us say a lot about we do and wht we dont. if we do something, they ask us why we did it, if we dont do it, they would say why we dint do it. am confused now. should i even listen to those who i barely know??? dont think so!!! but again, we live in the same society, which makes us difficult to live in if we have differences. the question that bogs me is: who are these strangers around me who keeps on advicing??? God gave us a brain to think, to make our own decisions. Yet, we succumb to wht others say. why?

when we are capable enough to think what is right and what is wrong, doesn't this suffice to make our own decisions??? perhaps, their experiences might speak for them but do they even know about our situations ??? but, we do have some advantages with peers. they provide us the information about where we stand in the society.

Critique is the best way to make people realize something they might have missed seeing!!! well, so if we are looking for new frnds., lets try to critique each other for a healthy friendship!!! enjoy the competition but be wise before following their advice.